Pros and Cons of Moving Away from Home

Hello you beauties!

I know this isn't a beauty post but I honestly feel like it is important to include a post regarding this, because a lot of you like me will probably be heading off to university this September. And sometimes the hardest decision to make is; how far away are you willing to move?

I found this to be a major problem when trying to decide which university to choose. I live in Nottingham and applied for 5 universities; Nottingham, York, Chester, East Anglia and Brighton. Basically a spread around the whole country. And then I got all of my offers back, all with decent grades. So I had to then choose if I wanted to stay at home or move over 100 miles away. So what I decided to do was make a pros and cons list of moving away, and deciding if the cons were worth dealing with. And I'm going to share with you this list today.

Pros:
1. Independence
Moving away from home forces you to be more independent, as family will not be quite as close anymore. But sometimes this independence can really be a good thing for you as it helps you to discover who you are as a person and can help make you a really mature adult.

2. A fresh start
Sometimes people aren't always happy with their life where they currently live (I know I'm definitely not) and so moving away is a great chance for a fresh start - to create a new life for yourself.

3. New experiences
You'll get to do so many things you'd never imagined doing before and get to explore some really great cities. You can make so many great friends too to share all of these experiences with.

4. Chance to make new friends
As I explained in my previous point, moving away is a great chance to make new friends. You'll get to meet people from all parts of the country and will be in the same boat as them so will have a lot in common with them. You'll probably find that you'll become friends with people that you may have never spoken to if you hadn't met them at university.


Cons: 
1. You'll be away from your friends and family
Moving away from the people you love most is obviously going to be very scary, especially as they won't necessarily be close enough to still see them quite a bit.

2. It will cost more
Of course, if you stay at home then you won't have to pay so much for your accommodation, but also some cities will be more expensive to live in than your home town, such as London and Brighton. Which isn't necessarily a great idea if you know you'll struggle with money.

3. Having to look after yourself
There may be so many skills that you'll need for university life, such as cooking (which I am hopeless at) which you may not feel like you have. You may not feel ready to look after yourself, without the support of your parents.


I finally decided that Brighton was the right choice for me. Yes it is really far away, and yes it will probably be more expensive for me but at the end of the day I just feel like I'd be really happy there. And I know I'll be able to cope. That's all that matters

Have any of you decided on a university yet? If so, how did you make your decision?

I'll be back on Saturday with a post for you all.

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